ULOVE DRANO

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Ah.. after a long rainy day..

traveling all around the gulf coast

to find beauty in ‘dreary’ things..

it’s time to Rasta without weed..

in art flow of dance..

to connect to light

in the darkest of days and nights

in rainy Winter Florida way!

And fun it is at Old Seville Quarter

on my 42nd Rave Dance week night

with the Mardi Gras decorations

all UP.. as well..

with colors like Rasta

except for red becomes

purple spangled delight!

It’s a nice way of life

to find inspiration from within..

as GOD knows it doesn’t

always come from without…within……

And with that said.. i better get moving

as the next stop after

enjoying A SUNLIT COOL DAY OF RENEWING FLORIDA SUNSHINE..

XXtreme strength training.. and some free flow martial arts.. COMES NEXT!

AND THEN ThERE IS

Southern Gospel Singing

with some Fire and Brimstone..

likely attached!

Let’s just say…

i get around..;)

 The part that people see of me..

never ENTIRELY reflects the whole…

But i guess i’m in good company

as that is how GOD LET’S IT ALL GO  too..:)!

IN CREATIVE GOD ART FLOW!

Last night someone asks me

what i am ON

to be able to dance FREE flowiNG ART

for three or four hours and never stop going….

i just tELL ’em i am

LAW ENFORCEMENT..

with that deep voice.. i can use.. at will.. as yah..

HA! ha! i REiENFORCE FREE Unconditional

LOVE EVERYWhERE i go! NO matter!

the haters that may back up

and stop up

the sinks

of love….

Just call me

ULOVE DRANO!

if one likes..

the label doesn’t matter anyway..

it is only the free flow of GOD’s Unconditional

LOVE of CREATIVE ART

that truly exists any WAY..

no matter which

way LOVE GOES!

god is

ART!

A TAPESTRY

OF Unconditional LOVE!

IS

GOD

SET

FREE

IN

GOD

AND

U

S

More fun photos coming later..

including

FUN

GOSPEL

SINGING

PHOTOS

BELIEVE

IT

OR

NOT!

GOD IS AT THE BEACH..

GOD IS AT THE RAVE DANCE HALL..

GOD

IS

AT THE GOSPEL

SINGING

GOD

IS

EVEN ON THE

‘WRONG PLANET’

GOD

GETS

AROUND

TOO..

AS GOD IS THE INTERDEPENDENT RELATIONSHIP

OF

ALL THINGS

HUMANLY KNOWN AND UNKNOWN

AKA

MOTHER

NATURE

TRUE

PER

ALL THAT IS

wRite

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@WORD393

TOO

from

head to

TOE

within.. outside..

above

so

be

low…

http://myfreelancestripperblog.blogspot.com/2015/01/liberty-stripping.html

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10 Responses to ULOVE DRANO

  1. https://osamasameerawan.wordpress.com/2015/01/17/philosophy-of-life-of-an-ordinary-man/

    ^^^

    All a necessary part of the machine of culture, depending on what the society one lives in requires for A measure of success in life.

    However, as the ‘Matrix’ movie trilogy, in fictional metaphor suggests, escape from this relative illusion of predetermined requirements of culture is possible, and at least in some cases desirable in creating one’s own ‘afterlife’ in NOW..:)!

    But obviously easier to do in some countries than others.

    But truly the so-called prophets now are writing movies to get the word out instead of ancient myths designed to market the same essence of truth FOR now. 🙂

    The myths are vehicles and vessels of truth palatable to the culture at hand, designed by similar seers to house these truths, as the cycle of potential awakening and enlightenment of humans goes on in NOW, as REAL human ‘after culture’. 🙂

  2. http://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=274806

    ^^^

    I think what Ana is speaking to here, is the hypocrisy often seen in folks who attempt to enforce their ethics and morality on others that does NOT seem to be genuinely practiced in ‘their’ REAL life.

    IN other words, the old saying of ‘walk the talk’ goes on.

    A great example, is all this talk about ‘love your neighbor as one’s self’, AND THAT’S IT, NO IFS AND OR BUTS, DOES APPLY, and perhaps the best example in our current day, as generally, ethical behavior in allowing human freedoms are continuing GREATER, at least in the United States, it is still the controversy over whether or not HOMOSEXUALS have a legal RIGHT to form Civil Unions and or Marriages that is STILL the HEIGHT OF HYPOCRISY of what modern Christianity SUPPOSEDLY TALKS TO, overall, but doesn’t WALK THE TALK, WHEN IT COMES TO the old ‘Jesus adage’ of ‘LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS one’s SELF’.

    AND OBVIOUSLY, as science NOW SHOWS, nature creates homosexuality, at least innately, in 20% of all ‘cases’.

    IT IS GOD THAT IS CREATING HOMOSEXUALS PER the GOD of Mother Nature TRUE, TOO, and not the so-called ‘EVIL DARK FORCE’ OF THE ENVIRONMENT alone.

    AND the Kinsey report shows a majority of humans with some HOMOSEXUAL LEANINGS, when they don’t have to worry about getting whipped, BEAT, AND OSTRACIZED, PER surveys given, to assess the OVERALL ‘QUEER’ INNATE NATURE OF HUMANS, like human’s FREER PEACEFUL EASY LOVING cousins, BONOBOS, doing the ‘wild thing’ with WHOMEVER THEY LIKE OUT IN THE WILD of animal being, TO TEMPER AGGRESSION AND VIOLENCE, AS yeah doing the wild thing can release the SOCIAL BONDING NEUROHORMONE OXYTOCIN, WITHOUT the lies of human complex religions and culture, overall. 😉

    And yeah, i’m in the TRUE MINORITY (according to the Kinsey report) of males WHO like ‘VAGINA’ TOTALLY alone; however, I’m also relatively speaking, a human ‘EMPATH’, so it STILL PISSES ME OFF TO see LIARS AND HYPOCRITES BULLY OTHERS, over their innate GOD GIVEN human nature.

    YES, IT makes me so mad I COULD ‘SPIT NAILS OUT OF A CROSS’. 😉

    AND that’s just a metaphor, please, PLEASE, don’t take it literally. 😉

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  3. http://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=273828&start=270

    ^^^

    NO NO, the world’s not black and white and neither is the mind, when working healthy.

    Nothing IS WRONG with having a spectrum of opinion instead of RIGID THINKING MIND. 😉

    BUT BACK ON TOPIC, of course folks CAN HAVE GUNS, AS A LEGAL RIGHT.

    But as always where human beings are living in large Tribes now referred to as societies, CONTROLS are necessary to prevent anarchy from being the reality.

    And GUN SAFETY PER strict regulations and requirements is A TOTAL NECESSITY, TO MAKE society work, WITHOUT, potential anarchy.

    So yeah, IT’S ALL GRAY.

    And yes, guns are A LOT LIKE SEX IN THIS WAY. 😉

    But ‘my girls’ could tell ya more..;)

    By the way JOKE ALERT!

    Specifically on the 2nd line ABOVE and the video below. 😛

  4. http://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=274704

    ^^^

    All ‘they’ have to do is move to the United States..
    and ‘they’ can have an unlimited amount OF ‘THAT’
    in virtual HEAVEN REALITY pornography ‘UNdressed’ as such.

    So wait, maybe ‘we’ are living in that kind of heaven NOW.

    So wait, maybe THIS IS HEAVEN.

    AND ‘SOME’ FOLKS are living ‘over tHere’ in hell.

    Perhaps ‘they’ were all ‘terrorists’ at one point in ‘another’ life..

    (REFERENCE KARMA)

    AND THAT IS WHY ‘they’ do not get access to ‘what’ ‘we’ have over here..NOW…

    Hmm.. the possibilities go on, AND ON, in an infinite Universe alone…..ALLONE….

    Oh, and by the way, I fixed your post for you.

    The software is only as intelligent as the person who operates it, according to the technical literature that GOES WITH IT. 😉

    UNFORTUNATELY, humans most often, have to figure that on tHEIR OWN when it comes to thEir own software and hardware, per culturAL environmental factors and innate humanity.

    Culture, science and/or religion, presently do, NOT DO an ACCEPTABLE and SATISFACTORY JOB TO GET THAT JOB DONE.

    IT ALL FAILS MISERABLY, AS THE FACTS THAT EXIST NOW TO DO SHOW, in REAL human terms of misery and suffering.

    YES, THE misery and suffering that still occurs JUST IN THE United States, in scientific terms, of one-third of school age children who are now pre-type two diabetic, approximately 50% of adults on some kind of pain medication, and skyrocketing prescriptions of anti-depressants for adults and children, for just three examples of human disease, pain, and suffering, exacerbated by a culture, science, and religion that can STILL find NO WAY CURRENTLY TO FIX THIS real PAIN AND SUFFERING OF human being MISERY.

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  5. http://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=274135&start=105

    ^^^

    Hmm.. some interesting facts…

    IN the last year, generally speaking, as a rule, in REAL LIFE, I AM illustrating real life examples of human behavior no one has encountered before, per their own words, not mine.

    So according to HUMAN BEHAVIORAL life, by the scientific method alone, MY BEHAVIOR DOES NOT EXIST, AS I AM AN EXPERIMENT THAT SO FAR CANNOT BE REPEATED, by ways of human behavior.

    Trust me, the anecdotal evidence of ME, per my behavior IN DANCE, IN REAL LIFE, recorded ON LITERALLY THOUSANDS OF FACEBOOK pages, by others, NOT ME, is real, although no one has been able to test the current experiment that is me, PER MY DANCE BEHAVIOR, by the SCIENTIFIC METHOD, AS NO one can duplicate my DANCE behavior TO DATE.

    OK, LET’s GET REAL, I am, perhaps, one of many extreme examples of unique and eccentric human behavior in ACTION, which can be recorded, to prove THE ‘weird’ BEHAVIOR EXISTS, AS UNIQUE, AND not repeated, so far, in human behavior, measured as such by the so-called SCIENTIFIC METHOD.

    BUT TO SOME degree, all human behavior, and humans in general, are unique experiments that CANNOT EVER BE repeated precisely PER ANY SO-CALLED SCIENTIFIC METHOD that currently exists.

    So science works pretty cool, for somethings in life, like the speed of light, and all of that.

    BUT humans are much more complex in POTENTIAL FOR HUMAN creativity, than science CAN MEASURE NOW, AND REPEAT, AND THAT’S A FACT.

    SCIENCE, is horribly limited when it comes to the greatest mystery of human, and that is human itself, particularly the magicK that comes with HUMAN creativity, when FULLER TAPPED AND EXPRESSED, TO THE dismay of the objectivist NAYSAYERS in life, who are simply living in robotic ways of systemizing life, outside of them, PER CULTURAL ILLUSIONS, instead of tapping the true creative potential that EXISTS WITHIN HUMANS, WHEN tapped as such, by whatever ‘aRtistic’, AS OPPOSED to ‘aUtisitc’ method THAT works!.. per Simon Baron Cohen, talk (reasoning.. systemizing.. robotic MIND vs. creative.. artistic.. empathic MIND).

    Perhaps, the most fascinating factor of this particular forum is watching systemizers try to make the art of philosophy into a science.

    It JUST WILL NOT WORK, unless one is talking about science and science alone.

    Philosophy is art and science, not science alone.

    And that is just PHILOSOPHY 101, FOR THOSE WHO REALLY GET IT. 😉

    AND SOME folks cannot, per innate and/or environmental factors, as the case studies do ‘clinically’ provide evidence for here.

    And sorry, I do not drink, I dance instead.

    FREE STYLE INTEPRETIVE DANCE (not so much the dancing with the stars science type) does the same thing BASIC THINGY for releasing PENT UP SILLY HUMAN EMOTIONS, PER ANGER AND other more nuanced human emotions, PERHAPS, IN part, for some folks, as a consequence of a LIFETIME OF BEING OSTRACIZED, and generally not yet, being able to figure out the greatest mystery AND MASTERY, per ART and SCIENCE IN life, in being able to balance one’s own mind and body, for simple human animal homeostasis THAT really smart wild animals enjoy, as the mainstay of life IN NOW.

    And that’s the whole IDEA THINGY behind THE ART AND SCIENCE OF PHILOSOPHY, PER BALANCING THE ART AND SCIENCE OF HUMAN LIFE, AS IS NOW in mind and body balance.

    And UNTIL ONE FIGURES THAT OUT, this ain’t EVEN PHILOSOPHY 101, DUDES, with or without a beer, or TRUE DANCE OF LIFE IN ART AND SCIENCE BALANCED AS SUCH.

    And without taking physical intelligence, which science does now show drives both physical and emotional intelligence AND SENSORY INTEGRATION, into fuller ACCOUNT IN BOTH PRINCIPLE AND REAL LIFE EFFECT AND AFFECT, PHILOSOPHY WILL continue to be ineffective as it has been in the past.

    Including the science that now shows that LUST IS THE CORE human attribute that underlies the true POWER OF HUMAN CREATIVITY AND PRODUCTIVITY.

    OUR ‘VICTORIAN’ cultures of the past and the present, still leave the philosophy of physical and sexual intelligence untapped.

    It shows clear in the number of philosophy of ART human formed male nude RENAISSANCE statues where the penises ARE removed by chisels to hide THE FRIGGING SIMPLE TRUTH OF LIFE that we AS HUMAN BEINGS are AT CORE CREATIVE PASSIONATE animals, and not a frigging SCIENCE PROJECT ALONE, DESIGNED BY A PRUDE, INSTEAD OF A PASSIONATE LIVING GOD AS MOTHER NATURE TRUE!

    SO SAD TO CUT THE PENISES OFF (or at least 20% of them [circumcision]) AND MUTILATE THE VAGINAS (FGM) OF GOD.

    Humans, overall, are FRIGGING INSANE, as a result of modern cultures that repress, oppress, and subjugate FREE ART OF HUMAN NATURE/CREATIVITY, BY ways of illusory fears for MATERIAL RATHER THAN true human CREATIVE GAIN through INNATE HUMAN NATURE more fully expressed AS ARTISTIC ways, instead of ‘Zombie Apocalypse’ ways alone, as one CAN SEE MORE CLEARLY in culture as it goes AS IS NOW, overall.

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  6. This is NOT A BLACK AND WHITE issue.

    The science of human sexuality is complex.

    Violence and sex are interconnected in the human brain.

    If it WAS NOT A WHOLE HERD OF FEMALES IN THE U.S. would not be ‘SALIVATING’ TO SEE THE MOVIE LINKED HERE.

    Some humans, both female and male, PER correlated factor with measures of human sexual behavior associated hormones are more aggressive than others IN THE PURSUIT OF SEX.

    For example, I was aggressively ‘attacked’ by a female BUTT IN a public dance hall, JUST TWO DAYS AGO, in front of literally hundreds of witnesses where SHE aggressively rubbed her butt up and down on my front area, as I tried to escape, valiantly into a crowd of humans that were surrounding, ME, A married man, AS I am monogamous, and all of that.

    Let’s get real, SEX IS COMPLICATED AND NOT A BLACK AND WHITE YES OR NO REAL LIFE SCENARIO, AT LEAST IN SOME CASES.

    AND ANYONE WHO THINKS IT’S NOT, HAS EITHER not participated in enough real life case STUDIES OR PURSUED THE SCIENTIFIC literature that DOES EXIST REGARDING the true complexity of human SEXUAL behavior.

    Being MONOGAMOUS SOLVES lots of potential REAL LIFE HEADACHES.

    BUT ANYWAY, IF THIS VIDEO OF AN EXTREMELY POPULAR CHICK FLICK COMING UP ON VALENTINE’S DAY DOESN’T PROVE THIS HYPOTHESIS, NOTHING DOES.

    THERE ARE many POTENTIAL women rapists out there too, and it is PERFECTLY ACCEPTABLE IN modern culture AS PRACTICED NOW for them to be that WAY TOO.

    BUT HAHA! AT 230LBS OF almost all muscle now leg pressing approx. 900LBS of Nautilus free weights in parallel leg press at 12 reps. ‘they’ will not be able to take advantage of THIS dude, more than a few rubs here or there IN fully clothed crotch.

    Truly in most cases it is the PHYSICAL SIZE OF MEN that puts them AT advantage of EXERTING THEIR WILL OVER WOMEN, IN THE SATISFACTION Of sexual lusting desires.

    Give women the same TOOLS, AND YA GOT THE SAME ISSUE, AS humans are humans, and they GO AFTER WHAT THEY WANT, if given the opportunity freely, AS THAT GOES WITH DIFFERENT LEVELS Of human hormones, and associated tools of human desires and DEFENSE AGAINST THOSE DESIRES, male Or female in full consideration, of this real life human sexual behavior phenomenon.

    Lionesses have big claws AND TEETH when THEY SO NO, TO THEIR POTENTIAL male SUITORS.

    AND WE HAVE LAWS, yes, which in REAL LIFE PERTAIN TO SOME OF US HUMANS, which PROTECT WOMEN FROM THIS, but no, NOT FOR ALL MEN, AS THEY WOULD BE ‘LAUGHED OFF THE EARTH’, FOR THE MOST PART, FOR COMPLAINING ABOUT AN ASSAULTING BUTT.

    I for one am always extremely cautious in keeping a proper distance from anything that looks like anything related to abuse, and I for one, will protect females, when other males approaching my size and strength attempt to exert their will over women in this way, WHEN IT IS CLEAR THAT IS THE CASE.

    HOWEVER, truthfully these days, in REAL LIFE PUBLIC DANCE HALLS, IT IS 50 SHADES OF GRAY, to determine who wants what WHEN.

    SOMEONE truly has to say NO LOUD, TO BE SURE, AT least in the dance halls where I visit.

    And MOST no one truly would take a man seriously, IF HE SAID NO, TO A WOMEN in the ways of bootie dances, and that’s kind of sad, truly it is.

    But IT IS HUMAN NATURE, AS IS AND reality as IS, NO MATTER what IS POLITICALLY CORRECT or legal, in writing.

    AND for me, at least, the overall dance outweighs this POTENTIAL CONSEQUENCE of the dance hall for me.

    My WIFE WILL NOT GO AT ALL, as she is ALL OF small, beautiful, and extremely vulnerable, and she likely does not want to see the result of a real fight of ME WITH ANYONE ELSE, if someone dared to attempt to take advantage of her, like this, in my presence, at least.

    And ha! HA!, extremely unlikely that they would, as my obvious defense is my both my size and STRENGTH ILLUSTRATED WELL in martial arts and ballet style dance.

    But nah, it doesn’t scare the girls away at ALL, OBVIOUSLY, as the science of bootie dance illustratesIN REAL LIFE EXTREMELY WELL, objectively speaking, per science only, of course. 😉

    When it comes to human behavior almost nothing is black and white science.

    HUMANS ARE ART IN ALL OF THEIR AGGRESSIVE AND LOVING WAYS.

    AND TO UNDERSTAND IT IS TRULY ART AND SCIENCE balanced.

    There IS No way someone is gonna able to understand any human behavior solely on the basis of science alone.

    The answer is simple for that.

    The scientific method requires controls per repeatable experiment without environmental influences to change the results.

    Humans are controlled by both innate factors and environmental factors per MEMORY OF ENVIRONMENTAL FACTORS AS WELL AS CURRENT OBSERVABLE environmental factors, SO THE ANSWERS at best when it comes to human beings are NEVER MORE THAN HYPOTHESES.

    So let the hypotheses continue, as truly that’s all that human opinion EVER IS, when it comes to human behavior and other sentiment of human beings, no matter where science goes in empirical ways of measurement.

    HUMANS are ART AND NOT SCIENCE ALONE, and as far as that GOES SO IS GOD PER Mother Nature True.

    Such a simple truth that many PEOPLE FAIL to be able to ‘see’, per innate and environmental factors, PERHAPS. 😉

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  7. http://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=274806

    ^^^

    And truly that’s the golden rule in a nut shell, when appropriately cracked and released as such.

    The tribal instinct of human nature, though, often intrinsically goes AGAINST the golden rule.

    Without cognitive effort in TRUE EFFECT AND AFFECT, the golden RULE will not work, overall.

    Love is a practice NOT A GUARANTEE.

    So the practice OF Love as ART and Cognitive Science AS INTENT goes on OR NOT, AS there is no warrantee with love, as well. 🙂

    OR art and science of human nature balanced.

    Yeah, sometimes folks speak WORDS out of the hate of their mouth and love of their mouth in the same sentence OR STEPS IN THE SAME ‘DANCE’ as nature and PERCEIVED COGNITIVE intent do NOT ALWAYS MATCH.

    TO GET IT BALANCED is the potential to get it matched as INTEGRITY OF FULLER FUNCTIONING HUMAN balance in Love as Art and Cognitive science as TRUE INTENT OF more fully balanced human being.

    —-

    That is what I see as the definition of love NOT the fictional short lived romance modern one..:)!

    Nope.. Like I said what you were talking about in respecting the humanity in others who are different..AND most importantly DANCING that metaphor in human creative ways to uplift humanity as whole instead of downgrading it to hate per the polar opposite way of HATE in life.. As is NOW!..:)

    Why do you think I respond to your posts the most of ALL here, as to me that is the MOST important part of human life and without FAIL you prove you are ANTI-hate in ANA’s words…

    —-

    That’s what human being in balance is all about, reciprocal social communication, in the give and take of life per human mutual respect.

    Some Autistic folks try and get it wrong in the eyes of others, at times.

    And truly some do not try at all, perhaps because of bullying in environmental factors or potential innate factors as well.

    Overall, this is perhaps the worst place to find friends, AND THE BEST place to SEE A different point of view.

    I love different, perhaps that makes me strange.

    I get along with all peer groups no matter what the demographic is, if given the chance.

    My Autism is kind LIKE one of A KIND PER THE WHOLE DAM SPECIES as different or NOT.. but not HATE! as is the result of so many attempts at what looks like communication here.

    And to be clear I do not judge anyone on a personal basis, as I know the depths of human challenge that CAN TAKE ONE TO HATE.

    AND often what looks like HATE IS either clearly or NOT CLEARLY intended that way.

    So I keep on keeping on, in respect of that enlightening knowledge, per the most important thing of all, HUMAN LIFE IN BALANCE. 🙂

    —-

    I AGREE, PER REASONS given in the comment above, one cannot judge a person FAIRLY by the frequency or quality of their responses in reciprocal social communication alone. 🙂

    —-

    IT’S a life long practice that I think most everyone works on.

    The following ancient and present wisdom that truly never changes, illustrates it well, with emotion that truly inspires human change through heArt as art, AS always the best way for change either for self or others, overall, when healthy minds are at play. 🙂

    —-

    So true, and as my therapist was relating to me during the period of time, where I lost all human emotion she told me perhaps the best advice I ever received and this is ‘WE’ should LEARN TO BE OUR OWN EMPATHIC PARENTS.

    WITH That gift in TWO ways of being INSIDE and OUTSIDE ‘we’ CAN have the ‘divine’ masculine and feminine influence in our mind and body in potential balance.

    And beyond that, ‘we’ truly need not look for ONE other person to complete us, SINGULARLY, as we THEN MAY find ourselves in a place of giving rather than receiving only…for all others instead of a close nuclear family.

    My father was in law enforcement for 46 years, and truly never even made me feel like I existed in his life.

    He left when I was three, with biannual visits after that for a few hours at a time.

    The fearless man he was, is the genetic gift I now have in practice, as I started taking selfies and finally comprehended that the man in the ‘mirror’ of selfies is truly me, in practice but not prison of ego, in the place my father seemed to live. 🙂

    The mother part was never a problem, as my mother’s empathic ways are engrained both innately and environmentally in every cell of my being.

    But the divine feminine is not enough FOR TRUE HUMAN SURVIVAL ALONE.

    IT TAKES fearless too, to get by in the FULL COMPLEXITY of what this life can be. 😉

    PER LOVE AND SURVIVAL in human cooperation, as a social animal at core.

    —-

    True, and I learned that from working at a Bowling Center many years ago, where before, I would only look at the other person, and perhaps nod and smile.

    Now I make it a cognitive effort to respond to almost every comment that even remotely relates to me online or off.

    Perhaps it looks like I am trying to have the last word, but it truly is a very old and very well engrained cognitive device for social survival in the wild of the BOWLING ALLEY WORLD.

    AS YOU might imagine it was a nightmare when it started out, but I needed a job, and computers were just being introduced to Bowling Centers, and I was just the ticket the mechanical minded manager needed to UNDERSTAND THE new ways of computers back in 1984; no pun intended, it really was literally 1984. 🙂

    The day that computers came, and eventually erased Bowling Center leagues off the MAP, OVERALL, IN SOCIAL EFFECT AND AFFECT OF LIFE, ha! ha! back in 1984.

    AND TRULY that is a metaphor for modern life, as this world is more Autistic oriented that IT EVER WAS BEFORE, PER GETTING BY in life, without real life social interaction.

    It is a world more and more designed both by Autistic leaning people and lived well by them, as well.

    But of course there are many many exceptions to any imaginary or concrete rule, as life proves out time and time again, from forming Bowling Leagues to QUANTUM PHYSICS and the observer effect. 🙂

    Yeah, one of my favorite movies is the BIG Lebowski, for MORE THAN ONE REASON. 😉

    Sorry, forgot about the Android but if you haven’t seen the movie, it’s funny as hell OR HEAVEN. 😉

    —-

    TO BE honest, I did carry a lot of resentment AND truly did not get over it until I recovered from my illness, as the physical pain I suffered removed the anxiety out of my life, as there was nothing imaginable that was worse, at that point when I recovered.

    My father was like Sean Connery in the Old James Bond movies.

    HE was rock hard cool, with almost nothing ever changing his persona from the law enforcement dude with a huge masculine hand carrying a cigarette or a gun.

    However, Now I’m so glad he did leave, as now I understand what kind of man I could have been if he was in my environment, during my early years.

    I think I could have been a cold-hearted person, if he did teach me his ways of patriarchal non-bending masculinity.

    I am so glad I am not afraid to FULLY EXPRESS THE FEMININE SIDE OF MY NATURE, AND YEAH, I was beat up bad for it, per verbal abuse, in my extremely patriarchal region of locality, which by the way, is considered by a recent study, per Pensacola, FL, a little south of where I live, in my even more extreme patriarchal town, per three bases of military influence, and MOST churches per square mile of fundamentalist type, per old Guinness World Record book, AS THE TOUGHEST PLACE TO BE DIFFERENT in the United States.

    To have never been able to have a warm heart, IS the worst thing imaginable, now that I experienced what a cold one feels like during my illness, for five long years, and know AND FEEL the difference.

    I’ll take all that bullying I received, through the longer course of my life, anyway, any now, over a COLD HEART OF LIFE. 🙂

    —-

    From all the research I’ve read it appears to be at least somewhat related to many cases of Autism, if not a prime factor in some of the reciprocal social communication issues.

    A common issue I’ve seen in online Autism Communities is a hatred for not only one’s own parents but parents in general.

    I was never able to go from resentment to hatred though, mostly as my mother did stay, and was a very nurturing and stable source of trusted love.

    It’s interesting, as before the pill came on board, and women of the very feminine type moved more toward the beta male type, per the interaction of hormones, it was often the super masculine man that the super feminine female was attracted to and per vice versa, as it still is for the alpha male.

    And that’s what my father was, almost the ideal of human masculinity.

    And my mother was voted as having the best figure in high school, with all her virginal ways STILL INTACT. 😉

    MY FATHER rarely even talked to my mother after they married, and his twin brother, my uncle, never even said a word to my mother.

    Autism is in the family tree for me MOST DEFINITELY. 🙂

    MY SISTER is diagnosed with Asperger’s in mid-life, and my Uncle’s (father’s identical twin brother) son, my cousin, of similar age, fits all the criteria, with or without a diagnosis. 🙂

    And he’s (cousin) an Elvis and Blue’s Brothers impersonator, ironically enough, the Dan Akroyd role, per self diagnosis in Dan’s real life way. 😉

    —-

    I love cosmopolitan areas, and I do not own anything but shorts.

    Even when it is 18F, I do not get cold, thank goodness, now that I am healthy again.

    And I’m guessing you mean centigrade, and OMG, that’s cold, I would most definitely have to buy some long pants and a coat if I lived there.

    I love the sun, and have always tended toward seasonal affective disorder without, it.

    All sun for me, and that is where I’m going next, outside to soak it in, as it is now about 65 degrees F here. 🙂

    Have a great day to the both of you, and best wishes from me. 🙂

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  8. http://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=273828&start=285

    ^^^

    Black and white may rule in the minds of some FOLKS but IT NEVER RULES in the REAL WORLD OF guns and FISTS.

    I don’t need a gun as I know how to use my MIND, hands, AND FEET.

    BUT NEVER THE less, people with lesser skills, both intellectual, emotional and physical, DO need one to REASONABLY defend themselves in the wild.

    Like I said, this is not a black and white issue, and UNLESS you are an expert in martial arts, I COULD most definitely take a gun AWAY from you before you ever saw OR HEARD me coming out of the peripheral of your eye or EARS.

    BUT fortunately I am a good guy too, and don’t do WHAT THE BAD GUYS CAN get away with, with guns or not GUNS WHO HAVE THE Real life skills BEYOND TOOLS OF METAL to get the job done in real LIFE of crime or special operations DEFENSE.

    Trust me, there wouldn’t be any time for eye-rolls for MOST anyone WHO ATTEMPTED TO TAKE A GUN OUT ON ME.

    But again, you’d have to see my REAL LIFE ‘NINJA’ SKILLS TO BELIEVE IT for even one second of eyes or eye-rolls, friend.

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  9. http://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=273828&start=285

    ^^^

    I don’t use my ‘Ninja skills’ unless absolutely necessary, either, on real flesh and blood folks.

    AND by the way, the ‘Ninja’ is a myth, so the quotes mean metaphor, only.

    And I have already documented some of my skills here clearly for the naysayers, like lifting 810LBS 12 times on Nautilus Parallel free weight LEG PRESS machine PER more than any 20 something year old Marine CAN DO at my military ELITE military installation where I train in both strength training and martial arts.

    I am now up to around 900LBS.. and will get that documentation on request….;)

    But anyway, I never come ‘armed’ without evidence.

    Nor do I want to waste too much time of the reading and potential viewing audience, so for just a glimpse of proof of my skills in strength.. as if you can imagine what Bruce Lee might be able to DO if he too.. could KICK WITH 900LBS of Force.

    And to be clear I also have ’empath’ skills, and my way of evading the BAD GUYS, IS SIMPLY feeling their lack of soul, and getting out of the way, same as Bruce Lee philosophy, as WELL illustrated in the second video below..;)

    I do not have any scars on my body for good reason, the best offense IS A GREAT DEFENSE.

    AND IF you have not developed as much strength as possible in life, in at least moving confidently in life, you are doing yourself a disfavor in my opinion, and to be clear the pronoun of you is a Universal one that I personally believe applies to MOST anyone.

    And yes, I was an extremely fragile person earlier in my life, and have the photos to prove that too upon request, but I did not let it stop me from un-domesticating myself by tapping into the epigenetic potential that most all humans have upon proper environmental challenge and adaptation.

    I have simply MOVED OUT OF THE BOX IN my free style methods of exercise, as both a Health Science Major in College, and Exercise physiologist per anthropological study of the human species throughout recorded and non-recorded paleontological history.

    Also another one of my degrees IS Anthropology, and a THIRD ONE, per Social Sciences Interdisciplinary.

    My conclusion IS that 12K years is not nearly enough to domesticate humans, and the weakness of humans is almost entirely environmental produced by a life of sedentary way.

    I have proven irrefutably, at least per my own case study, that un-domesticating an even extremely fragile looking younger person like me IS POSSIBLE WHEN one WORKS THE ENTIRE BODY MODERATELY AT LEAST 4 HOURS A DAY.

    Being retired at age 54, I have the time to FULLY EXPLORE THE RESEARCH going my own way.

    But anyway, here are those videos, with only one rep. nicely documented by the female gym attendant, as she exclaims HOLY S**T. The rest of the twelve reps are nicely documented by her flight student husband by way of high def. photography, as linked in the youtube video; ONLY for EVIDENCE, AS I DO WAY MORE THAN TALK THE TALK, FRIEND.

    MY POINT HERE IS this can potentially be possible for most any human being who adapts to environmental challenge to be a relative SUPERMAN IN strength, fearlessness, and ability to navigate freely throughout distance and space, WITH GRAVITY LIKE BRUCE LEE, per ‘water’, INSTEAD OF AGAINST IT.

    YA SEE, HUMAN LIFE IS MY ALL ENCOMPASSING SPECIAL INTEREST, and you like GUNS.

    My father had the same all encompassing SPECIAL interest his entire life with thousands and thousands of dollars worth of GUNS, and I thought it was very interesting too, I just WENT ANOTHER WAY. 🙂

    AND BY the way, I’ve never changed a tire, as I do not like to get my hands dirty; I just call in someone to do it professionally, if Need be. 🙂

    And as far as fights go, I’ll call the cops FIRST, if NEED BE. 😉

    THIS BOY IS A LOVER AND NOT A FIGHTER, no matter what my skills and ‘GUNS’ PER biceps look like on the OUTSIDE FOR SIMPLE and complex HUMAN DEFENSE.

    The brain is the greatest TOOL EVER TO AVOID CONFLICTS.

    And it’s the main reason I’VE NEVER HAD TO ACTUALLY FIGHT IN A SERIOUS FIGHT.

    So far, they’ve all ended with my first show of martial arts prowess.

    AND NAH, IT IS rare that anyone lifts their head up around me at the gym.

    It’s human nature, and that’s IT.

    I’ve been the beta male and even OMEGA MALE, MOST OF MY LIFE, AND
    NOW most EVERYWHERE I GO IN REAL LIFE, I am the recognized alpha male.

    I care not to be recognized one way or the other but it is still interesting per my special interest of Anthropology as A FULL PARTICIPANT OBSERVER in anthropological case study.

    Not everyone gets to be the omega male and alpha male in the span of one lifetime.

    Yes, it’s fascinating to be me. And I TRULY MEAN THAT IN A SCIENCE KIND OF WAY.

    AND now too, in an ART KIND OF WAY.

    AND the art part is the most fascinating pART OF ALL. 🙂

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  10. http://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=273828&start=285

    ^^^

    Perhaps you missed my metaphor; however, I attempted to make it clear that I understand your point here abundantly and avoid dead hearted souls all together and call the law instead.

    If you re-read my second comment that I used to rebut my first comment that was sarcastic in tone, perhaps you will gather more facts to my intention in communication.

    But as far as the run of the mill brat in the bars I frequent who spend their time on their BUTT ON A SMART PHONE, NAH.. THEY WON’T EVEN COMPETE WITH ME, IF I took ’em serious enough to compete.

    I DO NOT FREQUENT GANG BARS, FRIEND. 😉

    THE bar I go to is guarded with men with guns called police, and security guards everywhere one looks, with a strict dress code.

    But never the less, that does not preclude the possibility of drunk ‘nerds’ thinking they are men. 😉

    Again, though, sincerely THANK YOU FOR YOUR CONCERN, and I do not blame you for misunderstanding my communication, as I often use wit, when I see other Autistic folks abused around here, with black and white minds.

    IN other words, I was just joking. 😉 And when I got the expected response from the other guy I CLEARED IT ALL UP; AT least I hoped to. 😉

    And that’s what I mean about the ZEN art of EGO.

    It works a lot better than personal attacks.

    And to be clear again, I see that you are just trying to help me here, and that is all you are trying to do, and again, it’s the thought that counts, so thanks again. 🙂

    But no worries here, I am more than emotionally mature now, IN REAL LIFE POTENTIAL DANGER, AS A 54 YEAR OLD SEASONED DUDE WHO WORKED WITH OTHER SEASONED DUDES IN THE military for a quarter of a century. 😉

    I HAVE NO SCARS AND HAVE NEVER EVER BEEN IN A REAL SERIOUS FIGHT FOR GOOD REASON.

    AND THAT my friend is the ASSET SITTING ON TOP OF MY VERY BROAD SHOULDERS..;)

    And on top of that I like to write AND WORKOUT AND DO MALE NUDE ART.

    I AIN’T GONNA TAKE any chances in messing up WHAT I LIKE TO DO.

    BRUISED HANDS AND BODY, WON’T HELP ME IN what I like to do in life, and hell no FIGHTING IS FOR THE IGNORANT AND STUPID, as far as I am concerned, IN REAL LIFE. 🙂

    And owning a GUN is ‘stupid and ignorant’, at least where I live, in mind and body balance, AND A SOCIO-ECONOMIC ENVIRONMENT THAT IS SAFER THAN MOST, IN ONLY MY OPINION, as that applies to me.

    My father was in law enforcement for 46 years, as the longest serving deputy sheriff in the state of Florida, and he never even got shot at, WITH OR WITHOUT A GUN. Nor did he ever have to shoot anyone else.

    But he too, had a good head on broad shoulders. 🙂

    AND THAT IS WHY HE LASTED 46 YEARS.

    Most humans are easy to figure out, FOR THOSE WHO HAVE THE cognitive empathy ability to do it, and a good statistician understands the REAL RISKS, NOT THE COP SHOWS, AND other emotional hyperbole drama ONLINE OR OFF, as it applies to the real risk of life, and variables related per the pros and cons of gun ownership.

    And yes, I am both, and have been publicly recognized by other professionals as such, my entire life, in the flesh and blood thingy, that is far more real than this new wave of online fantasy stuff. 🙂

    But that’s enough about me..eh..;)

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