Truly
the ones who create
leave a part of their soul behind..
whether it is word..
or song..
or paint of offspring..
or light of night shade..
gone dark..
magically to appear again.. with a twist of left or right…..
So yes.. i told my wife..
that table over there is part of someone’s soul and no..
not just the person who designed IT..
but the person who fastened the wooden leg bolt and was it me or you who did it..
i do not know.. so our souls are all mixed together in all we do and see..:)
in creativity….
So i celebrate my 34th dance week.. tonight..
at OLE SEVILLE
QUARTER
Pensacola.. FL…
barely i guess..
after recovering from a cold this week..
finally today..
it seems…
but perhaps almost….
And i’m a little tired of words today..
so more photos to
come
after the creative ART of dance
is
done
somewhere around 3AM..:)
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KATiE MiA FredericK!iI 
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As all human behavior goes, different eyes, different views, different responses to the same words and or non-verbal language or other clues.
I rave dance every week and the atmosphere of dance was much more puritanical in the days of John Travolta and button down hairy chests; believe it or not it’s true, in the North Florida climate of dance I live in, at least.
There are ogling looks that could be considered a catcall as well, or even sexual harassment per work place law.
But in the dance halls of life it often is considered a compliment particularly as some women freely flaunt their booties in getting maximum exposure of attention to their hindquarters.
And on the beaches of sugar white beaches where I live it’s part of the bikini flow at least among the young folks and relatively harmless as a tradition in way of life.
EVEN THOUGH, THIS AREA, IS CONSIDERED Reagan country through and through, when the Bikinis come out and it’s time to dance, among the YOUNG TRULY FREE FOLKS, ALMOST ANYTHING GOES, for a ‘SENsUAL’ compliment on man or woman.
But does it happen in Super-Wal-Mart a little more North From the beaches or even close to the beach; no hell no, as it’s just not appropriate but yes the looks do go on in Ogling when others are not looking.
I personally think it’s much more dangerous when it’s done among disenfranchised males or females that are not as successful in getting mates.
And yeah, believe it or not I have been the recipient of booty dancing from women that follow along in these similar shoes as men, and it’s very uncomfortable and I can relate to how it feels when it is not welcome. But it is not something generally speaking that folks take serious when a guy complains about it on the beach or in the dance hall as typically culture still dictates guys are supposed to like ALL ATTENTION FROM WOMEN, WHEN DONE IN ‘that’ way.
But in the clubs these days women are getting almost as aggressive as men, AND IN SOME CASES MORE, in their ADVANCES toward the opposite sex, but of course people who go to clubs generally speaking are more open and aggressive about sex in all its colors in non-verbal and verbal language. My wife would never go and it’s just not an easy place to be for people who DO NOT WANT ‘THAT KIND’ OF ATTENTION.
BUT YES SOME WOMEN DAMN SURE WANT IT AS MUCH AS THEY CAN GET IT.
And it’s a free country (relatively speaking) so in my opinion more power to them, as long as it IS CONSENSUAL.
But seriously there is not much more of a CAT CALL than a strange early twenty something woman coming up to me and rubbing her butt on my front in a dance hall. Men still CANNOT DO THIS AND AVOID JAIL. AND YES, of course that’s a good thing, but it just goes to show this damn sure IS NOT A MAN only issue in our culture as it STANDS TODAY, depending on where one goes to have fun.
And I like to dance, JUST DANCE, and no I do not deserve it if I dance, NO MATTER HOW WELL I DANCE, DAM IT…
ButT at around 225LBS of muscle that can leg press 810LBS, yes, I can ‘gently’ push them out of the way.
They are NOT going to take advantage of me, per the REAL SCARY STUFF THAT WOMEN DO ENCOUNTER THEIR ENTIRE LIFE AS REAL TECHNICALLY DOCUMENTED REASON TO FEAR this kind of stuff, and again this is the reason my wife WILL NOT GO, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE WHETHER I can protect her or not.
And hell no I do not blame her, as I give people space and respect them wherever I go, as human beings, but some folks DO NOT FOR WHATEVER REASON, AND THERE ARE MANY REASONS THEY DO, SO I EXPECT TO WITNESS THIS BEHAVIOR, particularly on the beach and in dance halls. And if need be I WILL STAND UP AND PROTECT SOMEONE WHETHER I KNOW THEM OR NOT, cause I can with just a look, as non-verbal language is powerful stuff, both abused and used to help others.
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