According to human evolutionary psychology..
Men tend to objectify parts of women like their
shapely hips..and
shining soft skin..
that indicates
Fertility..at it’s prime..
But what do women want..
well..tHeY.. according to evolutionary psychology at the state
of the art of science..
tHEY.. want a strong and economically secure provider..so a male stripper would likely start off
in a business suit ..
i suppose..
to get the most response..
according to this science..
but i tend to disagree..
as when i was much much younger..the things..i heard the girls liking
in bars i danced at.. and such as that…
were a hairy chest..and firm butt..that yah..
gets
the job
done…
dancing and all that
‘stuff’…2…!
And furthermore..our closest ape ancestor the ‘overly’ friendly super sexy..
bonobo..has the same social empathy gene as human beings..
but does not share it with any other..
ape…
THis ape is extremely peaceful..much more so than the violent
SUPER PATRIARCHAL…
chimpanzee cousin…
Chimpanzees rape..
but the Matriarchal Bonobo culture..
shares sex like a friggin’ handshake..
instead of a life or death
deal…
Well..here’s the thing..
humans.. in the so called ‘primitive’ stage..
living as hunters and gathers..did share everything…
Sex was just sex..
but the prize was the child
raised
by
the
village..wHere everyone lends a hand..
and shares…and shares.. and shares..
YES!
HUMANS ARE LOVING CREATURES..
BORN TO LOVE AS SUCH..
NOT
UNLIKE
OUR
BONOBO COUSINS…!
SET A HUMAN FREE..!
AND THAT HUMAN WILL REVERT TO THE
BONOBO ROOTS..
NEXT THING YA KNOW..
YA GOT TEENS SEXTING EACH OTHER..
MILEY SWINGING NAKED..
FROM
A
WRECKING BALL..
AND
EVERYONE UPLOADING THEIR SENSUAL ACTIVITIES..
TO SHARE WITH EVERYONE..
TO
GENERATE
WORLD
PEACE..
THIS IS NO JOKE..!
violence has decreased greatly with greater avenues..
to express
human sexuality/SENSUALitY…
It is the way IT IS born to be…
SENSUALITY..
IS
NO
FRIGGIN
SIN..
IT
IS
THE WAY
GOD
MADE
US..
AS FREE BEINGS
IN GARDENS
OF
EDEN…
WELL OK..GRANTED.. WE HAVE ALL THESE CULTURAL MORES..
AND
YEARS AND YEARS AND YEARS..
OF
VICTORIAN ERA..LIKE REPRESSION..
BUTT
BEHIND
CLOSED
DOORS..
ON
THE
I
T
HIGHWAY..
ANYTHINGS
GOES..
THAT IS LEGAL..
HARMING NO ONE .. WITH
ADULT CONSENT..
SO JUST CONSIDER THIS A BONOBO HANDSHAKE FROM ME..
In the fuller version below..
http://myfreelancestripperblog.blogspot.com/2014/03/pussy-footing-stripping.html
I
LOVE WORLD
PEACE..
i dance for IT everyday in sensual
belly dance..TAI CHI
REVERSE..
ways..
EVERYWhERE
I
SWAY…
and yah..my whole body is a sacred instrument
of
GOD’S
DESIRE..
FOR
US
BE
TO
FREE!
Well.. anyway.. ‘things’ are most definitely changing.. around the world..
and..pop culture is a microcosm of IT..
and IT
IS
clear to see what
IS
COMING
SOON…
TO REAL LIFE..
SOMEWHERE..
CLOSE
TO
YA..
😉
BUTT ANYWAY..AGAIN..
This is a PG rated blog unless ya land on the
full
version..here..
FREEDOM IS THE
WAY
OF
GOD
!
AND
ME
2
HOW
ABOUT
YA..
2..
i am monogamous..but.. i can do some virtual stuff..
still
to
BE
TOTALLY
FREE…
THE TRUTH OF IMAGINATION..
CAN
SET
YA
FREE
2
IN THE REAL WORLD..OR tHIS INFO..HIGHWAY..
OF
LOVE..
2
simply
BE
FREE
!
WELL..AS AN ANTHROPOLOGIST..
WHAT CAN I SAY…
i am a participant observer..
in my own play..
tHis scientist.. does not just do the research..
or talk the talk..
i
am
the research..
and
i most definitely
walk
the
WALK
!
cat walk..;)
or
WH@
EVEr
BE
I
s
!
LIFE
IS
GOOD
;)=(;
🙂
E
X
TRE
M
L
Y
GOOD
IS
LIFE
(:
KATiE MiA FredericK!iI 
Related discussion linked and quoted from the Wrong Planet website..a site for folks with the Asperger’s flavor of Autism..
Information provided for educational purposes only with no commercial vested interests pursuant to the fair use clause under US CODE..per any potential copyright concerns…
http://www.wrongplanet.net/posts231541-start915.html
aghogday wrote:
Well..AP…i just wanna say..i’ve visited this thread to take notes..to help me with my ongoing philosophy writing on human sexuality, religion, GOD, and all of that touchy.. sensitive stuff..
While i will not link it here..my latest post on p**** footing stripping..coming soon..only linked on my blogs..says it all..about how important..
freedom of sexuality and sensuality per both sexes freedom to FREELY objectify each other…
IS..AS A MAJOR SOURCE OF
POTENTIAL
WORLD PEACE…
And no.. I AM DEAD SERIOUS..it is no joke…:)
But anyway.. thanks..!
Who needs to research stuff when ya got autistic folks with special interests doing it for ya..behind the scenes…incognito..and all of that…..online on sites like this.. for FREE purview of folks like me….
WE SHARE.. whether we knowNOW or not….;)
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Well..let’s face it..many feminist leaning folks..have let’s just say …a few more androgens..than their sister brethren..
Made fun of by the pretty gals in middle school..but still strong enough to get by..without getting beat up by the more feminine variety of the species…
And well..with higher androgens..comes a little more dominant stance on life and sex and all of that…
i know..as i used to be a beta male..and the feminist gals were all over me then..
yeah..i’m oldER now..many years ago and all of that…
But interesting now..as i present as alpha male in real life..finally at age 53…
The feminine girls are attracting to me now..at again oh my GOD AGE 53…(did not expect that in my wildest dreams when i was younger)!
Well i’m married in real life..so when they chase me down..seriously yes..! they chase me down when i’m dancing in stores and such as that…i say hey! come over here! and meet my wife..cause she is beautiful too….
Anyway.. human nature is so fun to explore freely..when ya have been a beta male and alpha male too…
But haha..i will always be a beta male at heart..and nerd and all of that…
Even if i do sorta look like a Bond character in real life..NOW..;)
At least that’s what folks tell me tHere..
in REAL LIFE..NOW….;)
And once again..as mentioned in another thread..and such as that…
An excellent opportunity for me as anthropologist..to be a participant observer..
And really have some…
FUN..:)
Here ..’right’..NOW!
As a real life philosopher..free verse poet..scientist ..and all of that…!2
FREE IS KOOL….!
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AngelRho wrote:
Personally, I don’t look at the culture. I look at who I work best with. I’ve always tended to work better with women with men and am more comfortable around women than men. But I’d choose a “strong” man over a “weak” woman any day. I’d choose a “strong” woman over a “weak” man any day. “Strength” vs. “weakness” the way I’d define it refers to personal effectiveness–not necessarily ability to do a job, but a balance between ability to do work and an aptitude for synergy. I can train anybody if ability is the issue. I can’t magically transform you into a synergistic person. I find that I can more easily form synergistic relationships with women than men. If I had to look at culture, or if following culture defined my actions, I’d be screwed.
Strangely enough, btw, my freelance work tends to put me in those situations working with more women than men. My most consistent supporter for my freelance work is a women-run non-profit. I also get calls from time-to-time from wedding planners, which is a predominantly women-run business. It’s not a discrimination thing against men, it’s just the way it is. And it’s not me trying to be an advocate for women. It’s strictly a business thing. In my teaching business, it’s typically mothers who take care of arranging extracurricular activities and bringing their kids to my studio, and men typically don’t enjoy arranging those kinds of things. So when teaching kids I’m usually in more contact with moms than dads. I don’t OBJECT to dealing with men despite how awkwardly I feel internally about it, but it remains a de facto thing. I’ve had plenty of male adult piano students, and I’m the father of two boys that I’m perfectly comfortable around.
So it’s another one of those things in which I don’t have a dog in the fight, and that’s also why I don’t linger in any lengthy feminist-oriented arguments. What I find astounding is that reports such as those I cited earlier come out, which indicates tremendous hypocrisy in the women community. I’m not making any arguments or defending any position here…I simply find it remarkable.
aghogday wrote:
In my regularly scheduled work years..i felt the similar…
The issue IS the stronger women are more willing to demonstrate real life empathy for other folks..while the stronger men are not…generally speaking..
It is impossible to have HUMAN syNERGY without DEMONSTRATING human EMPATHY for other folks.. in general…
And so far.. women are inherently better at this..and now that they are gaining courage to set themselves free..if men do not decompress..the repression of culture that keeps emotions of empathy in prison..women will continue to gain..and win in MOST all areas of life…
Strength in cognition..mechanical cognition that gets the job done..along with strength in social.. empathic cognition..that makes folks work together well..creating and producing..IS wHere IT reALLY IS AT..to make life synergisticAlly work..for the entire human race…
But again..those who do not adapt..will simply be…
left behind..with not much to gain..or offer…in a new age..of FREEDOM..OF EXPRESSION..AND WHEREVER A PERSON WANTS TO WORK..with the lesser chains of having to work for an employer for health care etc….ETC..etc…
Freedom is ringing..NOW..greater that ever..if one has ears..
And Hears IT
NOW!
but again.. those who don’t..
will simply
be..
……….left..
……..be
hind….
…
.
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 17, 2014 10:59 am Post subject: Reply with quote
Seething anger and resentment on the part of a supervisor is not a good thing.
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 17, 2014 11:04 am
Men are just as likely to seethe.If they cheat on wifey,she divorces him, she has a better lawyer,then the males are likely to seethe.Maybe the secretary pool no longer will give him BJ’s,now he’s seething and festering.A bad combo for employees.
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 17, 2014 11:26 am
Argh..yeah..i’ve had some supervisors like that ..no fun at all..
But on the other hand..after supervising 31 to 130 employees..that ain’t no fun either..
I always wanted to serve..but i served so good ‘they’ put me in charge…
That part really sucked..as my nature is not policing the behavior and work ethics of other folks…
i rather get the job done..
my
self..with a little help
from
my
friends…co-workers or whatever ..
but hell NO! i do not want to dominate others…
It also kinda sucks when folks are extra nice to ya cause they feel like they have to be…
IN supervisor-employee relationship…
The top dog ..gets no REAL FRIENDS…USUALLY….overall…
I’d rather be helping the pack..free lance..lone wolf..maverick.. and all of that….
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