Seriously this has to be the

Seflie of the

Year

of the

Selfie…

and yah.. yes.. seriously.. this is the

Year

of

the

Selfie..as Selfie

IS

The official word of the year..

http://www.usatoday.com/story/life/people/2013/11/18/selfie-named-word-of-the-year-2013/3634727/

and hell it even beat out Twerking for

the

Word of the YEAR..

So take that Miley Cyrus..Obama

is

NOW

hipper than ya…

Butt..i think I am running a close

second or something for someone really

unknown…

Well ya see..just in 4 months..since i got

effective use of my sight back..i have about

two or three thousand

selfie pictures of

me to

share on flickr with the

whole dam

world..

if they were looking…

but i am likely strange enough

to remain mostly

incognito..

except for the title of the

backwards walking dude in my

local area….

Seriously i have seriously become..

infamous for doing this anywhere from 5 to 16 miles

a day in all the metro area stores!

I can go to McDonalds almost anywhere

now around here..and someone’s gonna

say ..hey there’s the

Superwalmart

dude..

Hi five baby!

WELl back to selfies..and all of that…

I really love selfies..

as i had no idea what i looked like

with facial expressions after not having

effective vision of sight for

over 5 years..in fact for a long time there…

I could not remember what a smile looked like on

my

 face at all..so yah..selfies are quite therapeutic for me..

in

getting my human being

back again..

Butt NOW..even better..i can let my TRUE

ANDROGYNOUS NATURE

FLY

NOW

baby

FLy…

Cause ya..see..when I went to middle school..the bully

boys told me boys don’t smile you.. ya.. you know that F word…

and nah..it ain’t Fred or Frederick…

But if that wasn’t hard enough…

The McDonald’s cashiers back in those days..

called me ma’m at 13..

cause i looked like a girl

that was all..

But oh my god..i thought i was a boy..cause

i like girls..

But that ain’t how it works..cause little boys that look like girls

can really..really ..really ..really

love girls

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Anyway..it might have been easier being gay back then cause..

at least with Autism Spectrum Condition..

and all of that..

i

might have at least fit in one kool group

at

least..

one

(yah overall ya..know.. gay is reALLyKool)

Oh well..i had to become my own best friend..

sometimes ya know there ain’t no choice..

But my true hero

was

Jesus..cause that dude with a beard really

looked a gal

with a

beard instead of a dude

with one…

Finally some comfort zone in Jesus..

Dam I wasn’t the only

pretty boy

in town after all

was

said and donE!

So anyway..selfies are not only the word of the year..

and a way for me to see my smiles once again..

I can finally

let my inner girl

and

boy

shine!

So with that said..this is my own little special

contribution to the

word

of

the year..

And yah..it also gives me the opportunity to be

silly

like

the little child that once was the light of love..

and

yah

knowNOW is fully

A

Liv

E

a

GAIN!

Seriously..selfies are a great part of creativity..

as they can allow a person

to express

things about themselves with others..

in non-verbal communication..that thing that

is

about 93 percent of human communication..

in

REallyCRE@ive

WAYS!

Which overall to me..is now the

life blood of me..

yah..creativity..

TH@IS

WAY!

Butt first..here is a little mood musicK as i simply

have to have musicK

to LOVE

A

LIVE!

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But please remember it’s ALL for Laughs..folks..

and as ya may already knowNOW..

I

think

GOD

IS

BAsicAlly a Laugh

Anyway..

in

the totALLy

of

WH@T

ONE

IS

ASLOVingWA

Y

Well..anyway sometimes..

Katie Mia Frederick

is simply

F

for fab..

haha

heheherher!

Oh and by the way did ya know the original GODin the bible

was an androgynous dude..

but yah..them dam bully boys were around back then..

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and made him into what

they called

a real man

hehe..not those regular Angel dudes..

that are always androgynous guys and gals!

So i guess..overall I am in pretty good company..

Somewhere

somewhere..

Somehwere……

Oh..and before I present the Katie Mia Frederick

Parade..

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt215625.html

Did ya know that recent research shows that ‘higher

functioning..Autistic folks are inherently

androgynous 2..

Well yah..they are and interestingly the gals have masculine..faces..

and feminine bodies..

and overall so do the guys..as their hips are a little

more shapely than the regular boys..

And yah..i fit in somewhere with

Tina Turner…yah..

think?

Except when the top of my body is more fully

shown as male

i

think…

Mermale..might be a good word for it…

instead of mermaid..

i guess…

But i’m not a fish..

herher..hehe…

But AnyWAY LIFE IS GOOD..

LIFE IS FUN..

I LOVE LIFE!

and HOPE

ya do

2

!

Oh..and oh yeah..here comes the Katie Mia Frederick

Parade!

And some more mood musicK

🙂

😉

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Well..if this doesn’t prove anything else..

I do think it shows ya can still

have fun at 53..if ya..

think here at 20 to 30

something ..ya..life will be almost

done when ya get in ya..fifties..and more…

Seriously I ain’t ever felt better..never ever….

better than this..as anything is possible if ya just set ya..

mind

to

IT

!

And..

never..ever..never..ever..never…..

GI
VE

UP

!

Make ‘IT’ happen if ya WILL..

IF IT IS TO BE

IT

IS

UP

to

YA..

Yah?

Ya..eh..

YEA..

YESiThINK!

BuTT anyway back to that male thing..

i

guess…

Not as creepy now that I added my wife in…

hahaheHer..!

Hmm..hehehe…

her?

But anyway here’s some more…

Oops..so sorry..that’s my pet Hawk..not

my

face….

Butt wait..here’s some more…..

And yeah..me at 13 again..as opposed to 53 above..

So.. don’t think ya..can’t change at 13..

and maybe

even look like

Superdude…

at 53…

And yah..that’s a picture of my

fiery..

HeART!

And..contorted faces and all th@stuffF…

Butt back to Vogue..

and

walking on the wild!

SIdE!

Sometimes my wife has a little problem understanding

why i take so dam many pictures

of

myself..hmm..sHE’ll never understand..

yah..believe it or not..

sHE’s

androgynous2…

She doesn’t even have to work out..

and sHe’s

got a hell of an

8 pack….

And not a frigging ounce of fat..

anywhere on hEr body..except for butt..

and some other things…

But..yah..

back to

Work!

IT

!

And yah..that’s my Pet Tiger..

who rides in the

BaCK!

OK..well i’m even getting tired of looking at myself..

NOw

!

so chances are you 2..but yah..see..i wasn’t sure what ya…

wanted for Xmas..so i figured..a couple

of

photos of me might

suffice..

in

never..never….

land!

But seriously what I say is BE BRAVE

AND

DON’T BE AFRAID

TO

LET YA..NEURODIVERSITY!

SHINE!

LIKE FIREWORKS ON THE

4TH OF

JULY!

FOR SIMPLY INDEPENDENCE..

my friends..

to simply be

FREEDOM1!

And..ya can..or and..if ya..wIll..

LOVE

UN

CON

D

IT

ION

ALL

Y

!

I

S

ALL

I

S

AY

!

NOW

Oh..

and by the way..not only is this what

Androgyny looks like..it is also

what disability

looks like

as

well..

ya see..the hardest of my disabilities..

is an atypical form of Trigiminal Neuralgia..that is also

related to Cluster Headaches..also known as Sluder’s Headaches…

but anyway..all three are described as the worst pain known to mankind…

in

medical literature….

So..to escape the pain which no drug is effective for and

i refuse to take the chance of a numb face through nerve blocks…

i

must write and write and write and create..and create..

and really exercise intensely

as

possible to generate as many endorphins

as

possible..and OH MY GOD AFTER

60 MONTHS OF THIS THING THAT IS DESCRIBED

AS THE SUICIDE DISEASE..THE PAIN FINALLY LET UP

ABOUT

5 months or so ago..with the aid of some super great..$660 Jim

Maui Prescription Sunglasses for my approaching blind

near sighted eyes..

But OH MY

GOD!

even though i have to wear them at night

i can finally comfortably use my right eye

and ear for the first dam time

in 5 years..and

oh my GOD

i can even listen to musicK

which

oh yeah..i really reALLy do ALL the DAM time

NOW

Finally

BuTT!

anyway.. here is a list of all the other challenging disorders..

and or conditions that i

have accommodated as disability

and living

free and wild

in

nature …once again…

lik

E

a little child!

Sjogren’s Syndrome..Dysautonomia..Vaso Vagal Presyncope..

Fibromyalgia..Congenitally Fused T6 Vertebrae..Congenitally smaller

right shoulder bone as related to Klippel Feil Syndrome..Stenosis

of Neural Canals in the spine..Severe Arthritis of the

spine..Autism Spectrum Disorder ( originally diagnosed with PDDNOS at age 48 instead of Asperger’s syndrome with an historic language development delay until age 4)..

Severe Anxiety..Depression..Mood Lability..Alexithymia..ADHD..

Congenitally Severe deviation of the Nasal Septum..and chronic inflammation

of related mucosa..where the ENT wondered how i could

even breathe through my nose..and nah they don’t

know if that could relieve some of the

facial pain with ENT surgery

or even make

it worse….

Total Human Exhaustion otherwise known as General Adaptation

Syndrome…or more commonly known as a Nervous Breakdown..

Anehedonia..Hypogonadism..Moderate Carpal Tunnel Syndrome..

Severe Chronic Insomnia…

And yes..there are more.. but 19 or so is enough

to list..and these are really

the ones that

can be disabling…

But yah..some of the others ones..

can be kind of painful at times…

But seriously even

though I am

considered permanently disabled

by modern science..

i still feel really great..as long as i have the

freedom to exercise all my accommodations..

for disability…

THANK

GOD

!

for the great ‘ole US OF A..that protects..the citizens..

to accommodate their disabilities..even in ways…

like walking in reverse in SuperWalmart..as my legs used

to go almost totally numb from all them back problems…

when I walked in forward..

If ya have back problems..ya might try it sometime..with

the approval of a physician..and in a safe and cautious…

way!

But i just really want to inspire you whoever you may be..

that life is really great no matter what..

if you can find an accommodation..

for whatever may ail or

challenge

ya..

So God or Whatever..

may

BE

!

Bless..

I

s

ALLISAY

NOW

And I guess I’ll play this song now..as this

woman’s voice and body language..

is so

dam

positive

it makes me cry!

If there was a voice and a face of

HOPE

and even musicK and video for

IT

This would be It…i think….

So LOVE

and

Smiles is all I kNow

i

S

A

Y

🙂

NOw

🙂