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1. katiemiafrederick says:

   November 5, 2013 at 10:57 AM

   PubTalk ~ Dream On

   katiemiafredericksaid:November 5, 2013 at 2:19 am
   I like to dream small and hope big…
   My only dream for years..was just to see…
   I’ve got that now..and really can’t imagine any other dream but hope…
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   brian millersaid:November 5, 2013 at 9:00 am
   hope…yes….what is it you hope for? or hope to give?
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   katiemiafredericksaid:November 5, 2013 at 9:25 am
   Love more than anything else..in real life..my friend..
   I was without hope for over 5 years..and without that hope there was no possibility to do that..
   As soon as the hope came back the ability to do that was basically reborn in my soul…
   But..I did not plan on losing it when I did..it left when it wanted to and came back when it was good and ready..
   More than anything now I take peaceful measures to keep it..
   I think more than anything else the reason I lost it was simply fear…
   Fear is the enemy for me..my religion is basically one to fight against this internal devil that used to rule my life..
   I am winning the battle..and finally feel the success that comes as hope and love…
   Without that I am simply dead in effect and affect..
   My way of life has always been hope and love…
   But fear is the element that i have only recently defeated in around five decades of life..when I learned fear..sometime after the age of 3….
   Yeah..i know that was kind of an abstract answer..and oh my GOD…it’s nice to be around people who understand abstract language…
   After love and hope the will just seems to naturally blossom..for all types of Good will for others in many measurable positive activities..that come to life..after that….
   It’s like a flower blossoming..it’s just beautiful…why ask why is the way i look at life now…the mysteries..at least…

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2. katiemiafrederick says:

   November 5, 2013 at 11:12 AM

   http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt244315.html

   My first encounter with store security last night at SuperWalmart over walking in reverse..with music..as is now not only my ADA accommodation..for the disability of severe arthritis…and autism spectrum disorder in accommodating the stimulus of the senses..and extreme emotional contagions of others.. along with stenosis of the neural canals of the neck ..to alleviate numbness in the legs when walking in reverse..it is also the practice of my religion of music movement of what I describe as Christ light LOVE energy..in total effect…

   Well..it was interesting to say the least…

   I met an old co-worker in Walmart..and we talked about 45 minutes..standing still..after this my legs were going numb again..for the first time in weeks..as my accommodation with reverse walking has almost completely accommodated the numbness as long as i balance the forward with the reverse and do not stand in one place too long or walk too slow for too long…

   After this in attempting to reduce the numbness I stumbled into some cup cakes..and ‘broke’ a cup cake…a customer viewing this having no idea why someone would walk in reverse..had the bakery manager call store security to see what was up with me…

   Well..the Walmart associate with store security was a young guy ..who seemed to have never seen a person with an ‘invisible disability’ before..needing an unusual accommodation for ADA provided protection…

   I attempted to explain it to him…but it was beyond his understanding..

   Fortunately the higher level management..had experience in psychology and basic health related issues..more specific to the ADA and it’s protections..

   The associate actually asked me to leave the store..or threatened to have me removed for loitering..and even said I would be seen as suspicious if I did it in a deserted aisle late at night..he also told me I needed to shop with one ear bud in and one ear bud out…

   Well..the managers sang a different tune..as my wife who has Epilepsy and is also permanently disabled under the law..spends anywhere from two to three hundred dollars a week in the store almost perpetually over the course of the last few years…

   The night manager was completely accommodating..and the day manager …the overall manager.. even thanked me for my input ..stating it was well stated and an excellent opportunity to give his security personnel additional training regarding ADA protections and invisible disabilities..along with unusual accommodations.. that most people might not ever think of as accommodations for disabilities..to adapt..and survive for basic subsistence in the world..That most definitely includes going to the store and getting one’s groceries…

   So SuperWalmart it still is for groceries..and reverse walking for myself and my wife…

   Four months ago..I could not even tolerate going into Whataburger..It’s quite a successful accommodation for me to spend hours in Super Walmart again…
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3. katiemiafrederick says:

   November 5, 2013 at 12:07 PM

   http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt244195.html

   Wrong Planet Thread about asking GOD for help…

   Aghogday Wrote:

   That’s very nice.. I would love to hear you playing that on something like you tube..
   if you do not already have it published as such…

   Bicycling Guitarist Wrote:
   thanks. A minister of some church somewhere wrote me a few years ago asking for how to play it for his congregation. At that time I did not have any recording of it available. I still don’t have a video of it yet but there is a mp3 recorded last year (I sing better now) linked to from this song’s lyrics page on my web site (the mp3 link is after the song title near the top of the page). Originally this song was going to be one I included on my next album which would be the first to be professionally recorded. However earlier this year I replaced this song and three others from the 2011 album song list with four of my newer songs that I like better. And now that the album has been delayed another six months, since then I have come up with four newer songs that will probably displace four on the revised list (I haven’t done that yet though).

   When I wrote it my thoughts on spirituality were still being expressed in terms of the Christian culture I was steeped in from childhood just because of where and when I was born. Nowadays my personal spirituality leans more towards the eastern philosophies, but with a realization that the Christian message CAN be read to mean what the eastern philosophies say if you have that awareness going in as you read it. In trying to express spiritual teachings, Jesus was limited to using the terms and concepts from the language and culture of the time and place He lived. That explains a lot, at least to me, about why on the surface Christianity seems to be so very different from the teachings of eastern philosophies. I see deeper identities though.

   A problem I have with fundamentalist interpretations of Christianity, the young earth creationists in particular, is that since I KNOW they are wrong about something like evolution that has so much evidence clearly showing they are wrong, how can I possibly trust their opinion on spiritual matters not so easily checked. It isn’t a matter of interpreting the same evidence according to one’s worldview either. Most of those who argue against the fact of evolution are very badly misinformed about what evidence actually exists. Creationist web sites are notorious for distortions and denials of demonstrable reality. They bring shame to Christ and Christianity by spreading so many lies.
   Aghogday Wrote:

   I enjoyed that..You create a unique vocal and guitar sound..my friend..

   I also lean toward eastern philosophies..

   My prayer is one of action in being..like when I dance to musicK.. free form naked in my backyard..practicing TAI CHI movements…

   Also as the muslim folks do I practice being this way in energy..throughout the day..even when my wife is shopping in stores.. of what I like to describe as the Christ..that yes indeed the Historical Jesus was limited in describing by vehicle and vessel of language at that historical time and is still difficult to describe..except for languages like Urdu..which seem to capture the essence of this positive Christ energy better…

   He found a way that worked for him..i think..and was simply willing to give his life to share it with others as the peace it gave him..which likely inspired hope for the human race to potentially better take this action of peace and love in life..instead of hate ..and discord..that unfortunately is the force that still binds so many people together in modern culture..rather than the love that is possible to potentially take all to greater levels of ‘Christ’..love Light..and simply bliss as social primate…l

   But for those that never feel..it ….it likely seems not to exist…and I do not see any guarantee of It without great passionate focus of all human energy on IT..the ChristLightandLOve..TH@IS!

   And yes..science is a valuable tool for faith..hope..and Knowledge..to make better decisions in life..when one..Understands..WE AREALL connected….

   One would think..that after all the research on human behavior and sexuality..that the gauntlet would be reduced on the homosexuality condemnations..and maybe that will still happen greater in the future..as more people basically get educated on the greater philosophical issues of life…
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   DentArthurDent wrote:
   A christian acquaintance tried to tell me that in a life or death scenario I would resort to praying to god for help. He simply couldn’t comprehend that I would not waste what were potentially my last living moments on talking to a figment of other peoples imagination.

   Aghogday Wrote:

   Well i’ve faced those last minutes before..and it is never easy facing death…

   You are just going to be scared….no matter how tough a person thinks they are….

   Or whoever or whatever they pray to…or with….

   But whatever reduces the fear is all that counts…

   And yeah..if praying does that for anyone in their last few minutes…

   that is all that really counts…

   As every second of this life..is sacred…for those who truly appreciate the gift of life they have…

   Regardless of the adversity that life can bring…

   And yes prayer does really reduce anxiety for some people..

   And fear is the worst enemy that most people..

   face in this life…

   So prayer definitely can be Kool for those who receive this

   anxiety reducing benefit…

   That is real..there is no doubt about that potential benefit.. of prayer…

   Anxiety can make a person’s life shorter…and stink..just stink….
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   91 wrote:
   DentArthurDent wrote:
   A christian acquaintance tried to tell me that in a life or death scenario I would resort to praying to god for help. He simply couldn’t comprehend that I would not waste what were potentially my last living moments on talking to a figment of other peoples imagination.

   91 Wrote:

   That is a rather smug, self-satisfied statement from that person, they should be ashamed of themselves for making it. As a believer, that sort of nonsense annoys me no end.

   Aghogday Wrote:
   ‘True Christians’ do not do that…Simple as that…

   But unfortunately this is how people who could benefit from the true teachings of Jesus..the Historical Man..see Christians..who represent the teachings of Jesus..

   Therefore they simply think those teachings are bullshit…

   The key is being Jesus..not seeing Jesus…

   People need more people to be Jesus…not more People who ‘think’ they see Jesus…

   Or who think they can say a few magic words..in believing in a myth of Jesus..

   and all the world is great…..

   It’s the eye of the needle and a camel..in reality for many of those folks..

   And yes..most unfortunately…

   As the path is never easy…

   And never a given one either…

   to really walk as Jesus..

   and not Just pretend to see Jesus…
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   DentArthurDent wrote:
   aghogday wrote:

   The key is being Jesus..not seeing Jesus…

   DentArthurDent Wrote:

   For once, I agree with you. To me a “christian” should be someone who aspires to be “christ like” not some one who selectively follows scripture as it relates to their life whilst sitting under the banner of christianity. I find it interesting how many christians proclaim Jesus as their lord yet use the old testament in preference to the new.
   Aghogday Wrote:

   i’m mostly a devil’s advocate..friend..

   My true colors are in the last statement…
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   PostPosted: Tue Nov 05, 2013 2:06 am
   TallyMan wrote:
   ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
   I think people should try it, even atheists, just to see. … So, my advice is to do it and see if it helps even if you do not believe in God. You would be surprised at how much it strengthens your psyche.

   Tallyman Wrote:
   No offence intended but that is absurd. I could no more pray to a god than I could write a letter to Santa at the North Pole asking him for a new bike for Christmas, or leave a tooth under my pillow for the tooth fairy to swap for some money.

   Besides, which of the many gods that humans have invented would I pray to anyway or would I pick one relevant to the prayer? Dear Thor, please don’t throw any thunderbolts around tomorrow as I need to work in my garden and I don’t want to be electrocuted.
   Aghogday Wrote:

   Well..it’s kind of interesting…as our conscious mind is really only a small part of the reality that we experience..in totality..of what is…
   More or less one is directing themselves in a more potential positive way through praying..regardless of the belief …as long as there is positive belief associated with the thoughts of what people describe as prayer…

   It is more or less truly in effect..cognitive behavioral therapy..

   But that works..there is no doubt that…

   But not for everyone..similar to prayer too…

   Some people simply cannot get a benefit from either one..no matter how hard they try…

   So in other words neither CBT or prayers are guaranteed to provide positive results to any one particular human being…

   But there is no doubt in total effect that they result in positive effect for some people..even if it is just reducing anxiety…

   It’s a much better accommodation..than washing one’s hands over and over..

   Yeah..some folks are OCD about prayer..too…

   I am not inherently a verbal thinker..so my prayers have always been perceptual ones of energy focus..not necessary as such for any words to be present…

   That makes it extremely difficult to chain the force of energy that I understand to be what most people describe as GOD..as really housed by any word at all..Other than ALL maybe…or the one..or a metaphor like Christ for basically the same thing..I understand as such..or Whatever…
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   TallyMan wrote:
   wozeree wrote:
   Cash__ wrote:
   ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
   I think people should try it, even atheists, just to see. If you are feeling at the end of your rope, like you cannot find your way and you are very worried, tried everything you can think of and have gotten nowhere and are scared out of your pants yes I think you should pray. Even if you don’t believe in God, pray anyway and forget about Bible stuff. Just do it your way to your God. He will help you. I have done it and helped myself this way. I wanted help with a habit I had since childhood, I wanted to put a stop to it but it was a huge habit I never could break before so I prayed for God to help and I was able to break the habit on my own with no help from anyone else.

   People say that’s trivial but not to someone with a distressing habit. I am still an nail biter, I need to pray for that to cease next. I have been too lazy about that one though but I need to try to break that habit as well.

   So, my advice is to do it and see if it helps even if you do not believe in God. You would be surprised at how much it strengthens your psyche.

   Cash Wrote:
   I went the opposite way – 50 years of trying it and believing it would but it never did work. Heck, I’m quite privileged though compared to some, I guess there is always the argument that some God did that for me, but until I get some actual feedback from the big Kahuna him/herself, I’m not buying it.

   I have tried it. It doesn’t work.

   Tallyman Wrote:

   One of the most revealing things I’ve noticed about people who pray and believe in a god is how bitter and disappointed they become when their beloved god leaves their loved ones to rot from cancer or their child dies of a drug overdose or they suffer other devastating disasters in their life. Some handle it philosophically and say “it is the will of God” or “God works in mysterious ways” and other come to the stark realisation that there never was a god looking over them anyway.

   An imaginary “God” friend may make some people feel happier, but imaginary friends aren’t going to do squat in the real world to help them. I have no illusions in this matter. Good things and bad things happen in life. Sometimes we have control of events or we can work and guide them in positive directions but bad things can and do happen outside of our control. Believers in gods are no more immune to personal disasters than atheists.
   Aghogday Wrote:

   Well..I think that is the great thing about science and how some people can take their language and greater abilities in this life ..and in general treat them as sacred but not necessarily chained by any one tradition…

   When my child died I understood it was a beautiful thing in totality..that he was born with multiple congenital anomalies..as that is the way the beauty of nature works…..

   It is some of the anomalies that work that allow us to exist..and along the way there is the fact that what there is as reality..is simply not fair to the individual..what works..works..for the all of humanity…

   And yes..what doesn’t work equals life is not fair..

   Life is not fair..and fair is only another illusion of a construct of language coming from the comforts of byproducts from human collective intelligence..

   One really can not blame the ONE that is all for one’s illusions..

   Is the way I look at it…

   But some have no idea what the f*** i am talking about when i speak this way in metaphors…

   So they have no way to see my constructs of abstract language that represent the deeper realities..’i think’ i perceive…and do my best to see…

   So we continue as a species to attempt to develop metaphors to communicate the deeper realities that exist in life..

   And science more than anything provides deeper insights into this reality…

   But…science does not measure everything in reality..so the mysteries of life will likely continue..as long as the human species exists..

   We simply do not have the tools to measure all of reality..and would never likely measure the extent of reality..even if we thought we could..as some people obviously think we already do……most unusually in my estimation for even common sense…
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   PostPosted: Tue Nov 05, 2013 8:05 am Post subject: Reply with quote Edit/Delete this post
   TallyMan wrote:
   wozeree wrote:
   Cash__ wrote:
   ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
   I think people should try it, even atheists, just to see. If you are feeling at the end of your rope, like you cannot find your way and you are very worried, tried everything you can think of and have gotten nowhere and are scared out of your pants yes I think you should pray. Even if you don’t believe in God, pray anyway and forget about Bible stuff. Just do it your way to your God. He will help you. I have done it and helped myself this way. I wanted help with a habit I had since childhood, I wanted to put a stop to it but it was a huge habit I never could break before so I prayed for God to help and I was able to break the habit on my own with no help from anyone else.

   People say that’s trivial but not to someone with a distressing habit. I am still an nail biter, I need to pray for that to cease next. I have been too lazy about that one though but I need to try to break that habit as well.

   So, my advice is to do it and see if it helps even if you do not believe in God. You would be surprised at how much it strengthens your psyche.
   Cash Wrote:

   I went the opposite way – 50 years of trying it and believing it would but it never did work. Heck, I’m quite privileged though compared to some, I guess there is always the argument that some God did that for me, but until I get some actual feedback from the big Kahuna him/herself, I’m not buying it.

   I have tried it. It doesn’t work.
   Tallyman Wrote:

   One of the most revealing things I’ve noticed about people who pray and believe in a god is how bitter and disappointed they become when their beloved god leaves their loved ones to rot from cancer or their child dies of a drug overdose or they suffer other devastating disasters in their life. Some handle it philosophically and say “it is the will of God” or “God works in mysterious ways” and other come to the stark realisation that there never was a god looking over them anyway.

   An imaginary “God” friend may make some people feel happier, but imaginary friends aren’t going to do squat in the real world to help them. I have no illusions in this matter. Good things and bad things happen in life. Sometimes we have control of events or we can work and guide them in positive directions but bad things can and do happen outside of our control. Believers in gods are no more immune to personal disasters than atheists.

   Aghogday Wrote:
   Well.. anxiety is the core of all stress..And stress kills..

   Death is pretty much a personal disaster in my estimation…

   So..it’s a statistical measure in my estimation…

   If prayer reduces anxieties for any one individual..there is the real potential for a longer life…

   So if it works for one individual great…more power to them ..and if it does not work for another individual I see no reason why they should waste time doing it..

   But..here’s the thing..just because it does not work for you as an individual..does not reduce the value of it..in real time..positive effects for another individual..

   So what ooOO…

   Is only saying I think..is try it you might like it..

   That is completely reasonable in my estimation..

   Some of the folks I know that are highly involved in traditional church activities..and have their strong faiths..and understandings that the positive results of prayer are not a given..are rarely ever anxious and come out of Super Walmart with a big smile on their face for no reason but being alive…

   Hard to pin down exactly what it is in their life that makes them this way..but the connections that traditions of religions.. including prayers with other social animals..provides a real life benefit..in the ‘cliques’ of social groups that exist..

   Connections Are a powerful benefit for a social animal..Science already indicates that human connections are the number one factor associated with human happiness…

   My ‘GOD’ that’s just common sense…

   Watch a social animal dog at how happy that dog is just to have another dog companion or an owner with a pet after a long day at work…

   We are social animals..even the ones that are autistic..people need people and connections..

   And religion and prayer..is simply a device that brings some people to that place..

   For others it might be time in a lab doing experiments on animals to help other human beings…

   Different ways of thinking..and surviving..is what makes us able to dominate the planet..

   As the Apex predator…
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   PostPosted: Tue Nov 05, 2013 8:55 am Post subject: Reply with quote Edit/Delete this post
   ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
   TallyMan wrote:
   ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
   I think people should try it, even atheists, just to see. … So, my advice is to do it and see if it helps even if you do not believe in God. You would be surprised at how much it strengthens your psyche.

   Tallyman Wrote:

   No offence intended but that is absurd. I could no more pray to a god than I could write a letter to Santa at the North Pole asking him for a new bike for Christmas, or leave a tooth under my pillow for the tooth fairy to swap for some money.

   Besides, which of the many gods that humans have invented would I pray to anyway or would I pick one relevant to the prayer? Dear Thor, please don’t throw any thunderbolts around tomorrow as I need to work in my garden and I don’t want to be electrocuted.

   ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:

   It’s not the same as Santa. Santa is a human, your personal God is not. God is spirit, and praying helps to strengthen you psyche. I speak from experience. You pray to whatever name you want to give God. I just pray to God because that’s what I grew up with. feel the most comfortable with, but if you have a name you like better, you can use it. I believe in the daemon. Don’t shudder, it’s not the stereotypical fallen angel. More like the disowned part of the psyche that becomes spirit and helps me with stuff.

   Aghogday Wrote:

   The daemon is an interesting construct.. I see some truth ringing true in that..

   Not exactly sure how to describe it adequately in words…

   But it is one of those things..the mysteries.. of life..that science will not likely ever develop a tool to measure..

   In fact..I think cultures without too many by products of collective intelligence..the more primitive ones..like the ones in South America..or the aborigines that still exist in some countries..have greater access to these mysteries of life..Simply as they are more in tune with them..as they are not bombarded everyday by cultural noise….

   Turning off the TV was one of the best things I ever did..and quitting video games…

   My mind is much more in tune with the greater powers..that be NOW..if you will…

   Easy to pooh..pooh.. this stuff..if one is never connected to it..through perception…

   But oh my ‘god’ if they were..they might understand..then…and only then….
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   FMX wrote:
   auntblabby wrote:
   I prayed for help usually to find a needy person being placed in my life for me to help. :scratch:
   FMX Wrote:

   If I were religious I would probably explain that as God saying “OK, let me see you help someone else first to demonstrate that you deserve the help you asked for”. A pre-payment of karma, if you will. But that’s just me playing the devil’s advocate… oh, wait, that would be God’s advocate in this case. 🙂
   Aghogday Wrote:

   Haha..seriously you just provided an answer to a two thousand year mystery…the reason Lucifer and Jesus..are basically the same person…

   Dam that’s another metaphor..but maybe it’s clear to someone…

   The dark and the light are required for life..It’s as simple as that…

   Christ and Lucifer are just great metaphors for that..and OH! how ‘GOD’ loves ‘his’ devil’s advocates…

   After all..all life is is action..consequence..effect perceived as light or dark..or positive or negative. or good or bad..or whatever abstract construct of metaphor through the illusory process of the mind that human beings come up with…

   But the bottom line is energy..And anything related to passion associated with human beings..inspired by whatever…light or dark..or good ..or bad..makes greater energy..and energy..is what makes the whole thing work….IN TOTAL EFFECT!
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4. katiemiafrederick says:

   November 5, 2013 at 1:44 PM

   Another great post from Cabrogal on connection with animals…

   Hiatus part 1: A sick little bunny

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   As a person on the spectrum..I understand how important the affection from animals can be..and potentially understand some of the stress associated with your once affectionate rabbit… nursing him back to health..

   Kind of touching in a way..as you show your soft side here friend…

   Good to see you back..and best wishes for you and your bunny….

   Cats are my affection…and were actually my only ‘close’ to affection for over 5 years..just getting it back for humans..in the last several months…

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   Yep, you sure got that right.

   I’ve always been an animals person and people often comment on how well I communicate with them. I reckon the ASD gives us lots of practice. People, animals … it’s all cross-species communication to folk like us. Just ask Temple Grandin.

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   Yeah..I get pretty hot under the collar when people suggest that humans are connected better by way of whatever they describe as a higher power..for US so called advanced social animals..

   My cat experiences this bliss at will..simply when he lives at homeostasis..which is common for animals and so rare for human beings these days..

   If I had to really come up with one word for the ultimate goal of the routine of music..movement and connection with the all that is..that i Practice as a kind of personal routine of religion..It would simply be homeostasis..OH ‘GOD’..LIFE IS beautiful with IT..but oh so frigging hard without it…

   Your rabbit likely had that..much greater than you are I could imagine..but I can’t prove th@..my Autistic ‘Spidey’ sense tells me IT IS TRUE..

   They are simply part of ALL and live IT..not even ever having to attempt to come up with metaphors of the experience of WH@IS…

   When i was completely separated from the connection of WH@IS..my cat cowered under the negative energy of simply the presence of my hand over It’s head..the ears went back..as I was desperately trying to suck the life force energy from the cat..to make me feel anything…

   Now the cat comes to me..to enjoy my energy..

   Life is Good when one can share this..or give this energy..to others..and not desperately attempt to steal IT from others..

   Yeah..for me It’s the LIFE ENERGY..I personally see as IT…Th@ connection that bonds all things together..and makes them reALLy work…as oNE…

   Always have an animal as a true friend..there are life savers..at least for me…

   Never give up regardless of the emotional pain from losing one..AS IT IS ALL WORTH IT..IN THE LONG RUN..for connection and happiness…I think…

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5. brian miller says:

   November 5, 2013 at 3:08 PM

   it is easy to let that hate fill your heart when that is what you get…the anger builds up over the hate you experience and it jades you toward life around you for sure…..i see it in a lot of the kids i have counseled and now teach…they expect the world to begin to operate that way at some point…and it takes some reprogramming and a whole lotta love…smiles.

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   • katiemiafrederick says:

     November 5, 2013 at 11:39 PM

     Yes..that is a huge challenge..especially if one sees it coming from parents too..when the are young..I am quite sure that the unconditional love from my mother..is what protected me from this saddest of situations…that I see in life…

     As the hatred becomes a vicious cycle that goes on and on ..instead of ending with the perpetrator…..

     The kids that get over this and become love instead of hate..are remarkable to me..and due great respect..from what I see… Thanks Brian…

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6. charliezero1.wordpress.com says:

   November 5, 2013 at 4:55 PM

   You’re writing style is so unique and beautifully crafted. I love every word you said here in this poem. Very inspirational, wisdom, and a lot of creativity. 🙂

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   • katiemiafrederick says:

     November 5, 2013 at 11:42 PM

     Thanks Charliezero1..I gain a great deal of pleasure from creating it..your words are very kind..as for anyone to understand it and like it is really icing on that cake of the pleasure of doing it…smiles…

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     • charliezero1.wordpress.com says:

       November 6, 2013 at 12:38 PM

       You are welcome sir. 🙂

       Say, if you get a chance check out my new blog poem. 🙂

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7. katiemiafrederick says:

   November 7, 2013 at 11:20 PM

   http://www.wrongplanet.net/postxf244335-0-15.html

   Aghogday Wrote:

   Illusory Fear is a major source of all types of human weaknesses…

   Unfortunately those individuals who have higher potentials to learn new things..Also have higher potential to learn fears..

   There are only two inherent human fears..heights..and loud noises..

   All other fears are learned and are in effect illusory as compared to the two innate fears..

   ANxiety almost killed me..as it is the major source of stress and the most common expression of fear among human beings..

   I have absolutely no fears now..or anxiety now for one and only one reason..

   I unlearned all my illusory fears…through years of self reflection and my own style of cognitive behavioral therapy…

   Confidence is definitely a way FOR THE WIN…

   Just watch an animal..the confident ones..always get ahead..

   Humans ANimals are no different..

   AS the bottom line is the confident ones are the ones that most often survive…
   And simply have a
   ‘greater’ life..

   ANd much more likely to reproduce…

   The bottom line..

   Is getting some….

   Quite FRANkly….

   Scaredy Cats simply don’t get as much…..
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   And in my opinion the best way to boost confidence..both physically per posture and well being and psychologically per social anxiety and anxiety in general..

   Is to learn to walk in reverse..and even dance in reverse..as a daily routine of existence..if one wills..

   Firstly..i look about 2 inches taller now that my spine is straight instead of leaning forward…

   ANd it’s simply amazing..how having greater agility and balance in general alone can increase confidence…without even trying to be confident..

   We are animals ..it is as simple as that..and posture more than anything indicates confidence to other human animals…

   Walking tall..says it all..to other human animals..whether consciously aware of it or not..

   Approximately 93% of communication is gained through non-verbal communication…

   If anyone could benefit from walking in reverse ..it would be people on the autism spectrum…

   I took full advantage of it..and it simply worked…

   Not to mention completely erasing the pain of severe arthritis in my back…and legs that used to go completely numb walking forward…

   Wow..the solutions are sometimes..so frigging simple…

   But again..fear..is sometimes..that only thing that holds people back…

   In this case..from moving in reverse….and in totality of effect and affect.. moving ahead..

   FTW….
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8. katiemiafrederick says:

   December 8, 2013 at 9:17 AM

   https://www.facebook.com/boycottautismspeaksnow

   haha..please delete my post you so called autistic jerks..that are not autistic in the first place..most of you folks..anyway..that parade around on the internet..suggesting ya are..so back to your other issues please and leave real compassionate people alone to really serve other people in the REAL FRIGGING WORLD..

   OR JUST LIVE IN HATE AND BE A JERK..YOUR CHOICE YOUR WILL..NOT MINE..YOUR HELL YOUR ABYSS..NOT MINE.

   MY LIFE IS BLISS.. MY LIFE IS HEAVEN..SIMPLY AS I LIVE IN BLISS AND STAND FOR JUSTICE..

   yah..LOVE IS WHERE IT’S@

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